tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-114245442024-03-07T23:33:35.612+02:00Aliyah and the Art of Motorcycle MaintenanceLearning about yourself is a tricky endeavor. Documenting it without freaking out your friends is even more challenging.Beckyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16776798265430421522noreply@blogger.comBlogger70125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11424544.post-71624307277956226902013-01-09T02:11:00.000+02:002013-01-09T02:13:57.680+02:00In the land of Silicon - the good kind<br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">I’ve had a nagging suspicion for quite a while, and honestly,
it’s turned into more than just a suspicion by now, that I spend too much time
taking in information—whether important or unimportant—and not enough on my own
creative output. It’s probably something many of us, excluding those of you in
the truly creative fields like art and writing, find ourselves guilty of. “Ah,
yes, all of our genius just going to waste on tweets and Facebook status
updates.” I joked with a friend earlier today as we discussed my future that “I
just want something where I can utilize my potential – I mean, I’m above
average intelligence and pretty talented, right?” Of course, every idiot thinks
he’s the next Einstein. A simple scroll through your Facebook newsfeed confirms
that. Where <i>do</i> people get all that confidence, particularly those who
shouldn’t have it? Yep, if you can’t use an apostrophe correctly, I don’t need
to know your extremely deep thoughts on world politics—and certainly not last
night’s episode of Hoarders. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">In any case, let’s just say that I’ve been on a blog-writing
hiatus since Ella was born. Sure, I had lots of interesting, not to mention
hilarious, and of course heart-wrenching, anecdotes to share since she came
along. Only thing lacking, I suppose, was time. Oh, and sleep. And the
occasional shower. All of which combined
to destroy any real creative energy. Thus, what few intelligent and humorous
thoughts survived were discussed during all those lengthy, wine-drenched
romantic dinners I was able to share with my husband, Nadav. Ha. Man, I crack
myself up.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">As usual, though, I’ll apologize for not writing more, vow
to do write more often from here on out, and get to what I really wanted to
write about. Which is? Well, we moved. From Israel’s <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Silicon_Wadi">Silicon Wadi </a>to the Bay Area’s very own Silicon Valley (silly of them to steal the name from
Israel with all the creative minds that can be found here, huh?). We’ve been
here about three months now, and we’ve managed to find and furnish a townhouse
(thank you, Craigslist), buy a car (thank you, shady used car salesman), and figure
out that northern Californians are apparently not fans of Walmart (sigh) but <i>very
</i>big fans of Target and Indian food. I attribute it to the area’s large
Indian population and the fact that Target was invented for yuppies—and this
must be the Yuppie Capital of the world, judging by the number of farmers’
markets they have here on the weekend. Let it be clear, I am not judging. I,
too, would like to consider myself young, and I sure hope I’m upwardly mobile.
Time will tell. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">The (re-)adjustment to life in America, particularly
suburban America, has had its ups and downs. On the up side, there’s Amazon
(which got me an electric kettle a few days after moving in to our corporate
housing) and big grocery stores with everything you could possibly want and
people are polite. On the down side, you have to get in your car for
everything, it just isn’t as easy to make friends in casual situations as it
was in Israel, and we’re far away from family—whether it’s family in Israel or
family in America. Also, there’s the
myth of a northern California winter, which goes something like this: “The Bay
Area is great. It doesn’t get below 60 degrees all year round. You’ll love it.”
No, friends, it does get colder than 60 degrees. In fact, it gets 23 degrees
below 60 degrees—as in 37 degrees Farenheit—and not to be a wimp, but my Florida and
most-recently-Mediterranean blood cannot take it. Not to mention poor Nadav,
who convinced himself that since we were going to California, he only needed to
pack one pair of long pants. </span></div>
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<span style="line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">But we will survive the frigid Santa Clara
winter and live to tell the tale. And I’ll try to update along the way.</span></span>Beckyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16776798265430421522noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11424544.post-42985618789882408402010-12-29T16:44:00.009+02:002011-01-07T11:59:58.751+02:00Ella's Firsts. . . Or How Ella Became a Superstar<div style="text-align: left;">So, I've been meaning to write things down about Ella's first days and weeks on Earth so that way I can remember them years from now. I've yet to write a thing and it turns out I should have, so I can remember them in the much more short-term. I'm certain there were a few things that should have made the following list, but my sleep-deprived Mommy brain has forgotten them already. It's amazing how even the smallest goal for the day can go undone when there's a hungry, poopy, crying, needing-to-be-entertained munchkin in the house. But here's the short list, with a short description of her most exciting outing yet, a trip to the photographer.</div><div><br /></div><div>A few of Ella's firsts:</div><div><br /></div><div>2 days old: Ella comes home from the hospital</div><div>5 days old: Our first trip to the park together</div><div>12 days old: Ella's first trip to Tipat Halav (health services for children) - she has gained 200 grams since she left the hospital (weighing in at a whopping 4 kg!)</div><div>13 days old: Umbilical cord falls off and Ella joins the rest of the belly-buttoned human race</div><div>13 days old (it was a big day for her!): Ella's first photo shoot</div><div><br /></div><div>So, our trip to get professional photos done - for free, in exchange for using our little baby's photos to market the photographer's foray into newborn photos - was, in short, eventful. I'd been instructed to feed Ella right before setting out for Yael the photographer's studio and keep her awake for at least an hour beforehand. Yael also told me to wear black, so we could take some photos of me holding Ella and to bring an extra change of clothes, since we'd be doing the photos without Ella's diaper on (make a mental note of this instruction - it will prove relevant later on).</div><div><br /></div><div>So, we set out - full of vigor and purpose . . . and promptly got lost. Luckily, I am a whiz with a Gush Dan (Tel Aviv metropolitan area) map and we made it to our destination on time. While we traversed the Givatayim suburb of Tel Aviv, Ella, who was not a happy camper, was soothed by Grandma Linda in the backseat and the sounds of a church mass on the radio - yeah, go figure.</div><div><br /></div><div>We made it to Yael's and Ella had fallen asleep, which meant she wasn't particularly sleepy once we went upstairs. The fact that I then stripped her down to her diaper also didn't make her particularly calm. So I nursed her in the hope that she would fall asleep on me - as she is wont to do.</div><div><br /></div><div>Well, no luck there. She was as wide awake as if I'd breastfed her a venti frapuccino. After countless attempts to lull her, Yael changed the set and we did some photos of me holding Ella in all sorts of strange positions. She was a willing - yet not entirely agreeable - model. She locked her legs straight when we tried to fold them. She turned her head away from the camera, leaving us no choice but to position ME in the other direction. And best of all, she peed on me - and all over the drape Yael had spread out on the floor.</div><div><br /></div><div>Figuring this kid was not going to sleep, I told Yael maybe we'd just call it a day. But she persisted and with her baby-charming ways, managed to put her to sleep. Then the real fun began. We were on our way to dreamy, adorable pictures of Ella on a big pile of white towels. They would be so cute! But Ella must have felt she needed to make an artistic statement and proceeded to shoot poop onto 3 of the 4 towels. Oh, Ella!</div><div><br /></div><div>After that, we managed to get the towels turned where Ella's "creative expression" was hidden and Yael photographed Ella looking much more calm and adorable than she had behaved that morning.</div><div><br /></div><div>All in all, it was a trying morning. Mommy's wrists and back (not to mention other parts) hurt, Ella was exhausted and cranky, Grandma was tired but elated at the beautiful pictures, and it was decided that Ella - while adorable - will not be pursuing a career in modeling.</div><div><br /></div><div>Thanks to Yael Elad: <a href="http://www.blogger.com/www.yaelelad.com">www.yaelelad.com</a></div><div><br /></div><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEha5fSEDjRsJKgDu6qNmd_apZS2iZ78fg1UTxNSvUud1hsY-tZ5agDXSuGMpTqGLJm3T8MIaCw6XklwzTpIDwZs-715x7-ZrnT8LuNGILWmIUfSBwhmk2wih4nMdrSXGz1nTwKT/s1600/134912_487585013105_528103105_6260032_4338721_o.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 213px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEha5fSEDjRsJKgDu6qNmd_apZS2iZ78fg1UTxNSvUud1hsY-tZ5agDXSuGMpTqGLJm3T8MIaCw6XklwzTpIDwZs-715x7-ZrnT8LuNGILWmIUfSBwhmk2wih4nMdrSXGz1nTwKT/s320/134912_487585013105_528103105_6260032_4338721_o.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5558606417837857730" /></a><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj64sNLCEkwfgkmKA91SeL1fPVVfR6BW1fqqeSF0K292_AOGF_GNmoSkInyREhj60BzHSqy__VkoYgxyaqlh8VYXGhiYMWGyJjPpXTtH1Ag81gn1bVqhJQh0zhnSqN-xw72BSX8/s1600/Ella+in+Becky%2527s+baby+blanket.jpg"><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj64sNLCEkwfgkmKA91SeL1fPVVfR6BW1fqqeSF0K292_AOGF_GNmoSkInyREhj60BzHSqy__VkoYgxyaqlh8VYXGhiYMWGyJjPpXTtH1Ag81gn1bVqhJQh0zhnSqN-xw72BSX8/s320/Ella+in+Becky%2527s+baby+blanket.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5559381441193580562" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 213px; " /></a><div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" ><u><br /></u></span></div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj64sNLCEkwfgkmKA91SeL1fPVVfR6BW1fqqeSF0K292_AOGF_GNmoSkInyREhj60BzHSqy__VkoYgxyaqlh8VYXGhiYMWGyJjPpXTtH1Ag81gn1bVqhJQh0zhnSqN-xw72BSX8/s1600/Ella+in+Becky%2527s+baby+blanket.jpg"></a><div><br /></div></div>Beckyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16776798265430421522noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11424544.post-81063572445506278282010-12-25T15:27:00.015+02:002011-01-03T17:16:04.309+02:00The Best Laid Schemes<span class="Apple-style-span"><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjfCltzSB2Jo2J-RGLsWVIfbvPLuZ4YdZgk0WZPfNkz1dec-mwj5A381pAdFDruleESJ6f63XjzGqTJFH8OKb-FgTFYolksWR5TW7Kqa7HQoESwXtUEK4py8JvGuaiDellr765g/s1600/PICT0045.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjfCltzSB2Jo2J-RGLsWVIfbvPLuZ4YdZgk0WZPfNkz1dec-mwj5A381pAdFDruleESJ6f63XjzGqTJFH8OKb-FgTFYolksWR5TW7Kqa7HQoESwXtUEK4py8JvGuaiDellr765g/s320/PICT0045.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5554660107885327106" /></a></span><div><p class="MsoNormal"></p><p class="MsoNormal"></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: georgia, serif; " >The best laid schemes of mice and men – and apparently, women – go often askew. Or in our case, entirely askew. Sure, I had a birth plan. In today’s developed world, this is quite common. An outline, detailed or not, of how you’d like to see your birth experience play out. My birth plan was to have a natural, unmedicated birth. The goal was to use Hypnobirthing techniques (meditation and breathing) to remain calm—the basis of Hypnobirthing being Grantly Dick-Read’s book Childbirth without Fear, which advocates the idea that fear of birth leads to tension and this tension leads to pain.<br /><br />As it turns out, either I was full of unrecognized fear that led to pain, or quite simply, childbirth is painful. The truth is, I was under no illusion that it would be easy or entirely pain-free, but I was hoping that my months of preparation emotionally and physically (prenatal yoga) would help me come through the process with a beautiful baby girl and somewhat (at least a little bit?!?) unscathed myself.<br /><br />Life, or nature, it seems, had other plans for me. As I look back at my birth plan now, I think EVERY SINGLE ASPECT OF IT went ENTIRELY the opposite. Truly, without exception, everything I had envisioned did not turn out how I had thought I wanted it to. Well, the baby still arrived, but that was sort of an assumed part of the plan that I didn’t include in the written version.<br /><br />And so, now, a short and hopefully not-too-graphic version of the day of Ella’s arrival into our world and lives:<br /><br />Wednesday, 3am: Contractions start. They’re slightly uncomfortable and coming around every 10-15 minutes. I breathe through them just fine and let Nadav sleep a bit.<br /><br />By 8 am they are coming more frequently, but I stop timing them due to the tediousness of timing 50 second contractions every 10 minutes.<br /><br />As the day goes by, the contractions eventually get stronger, slightly longer and more frequent. Around 2:30pm, we decide to head to the hospital, a mere five-minute drive away, and call our doula to meet us there.<br /><br />While in the women’s ER, with a fetal monitor strapped to my ginormous belly, contractions are getting stronger but it turns out I’m just under 3cm dilated, so they send me outside to walk around a bit, in the hopes that I’ll progress soon and be sent up to a delivery room. About 10 seconds later, my water breaks and I go back in to be checked again. They tell me that I’ll now be sent up to the delivery room—which I’m looking forward to, since there I can take a hot shower and hopefully get some relief from the increasing pain. Now is an important time to mention that the hospital we’re in—Ichilov in Tel Aviv—is a VERY busy hospital for births and has 15 delivery rooms, twice the amount of most other hospitals in Israel. Due to this, TONS of women go there. So, I only get into the delivery room around 4:30pm, thus enduring my contractions in the hallway, hanging on Nadav and moaning for the world to see.<br /><br />Upon arrival in the delivery room, we tried a variety of methods to cope – hot shower, music, breathing, movement—in short, all the “typical” natural childbirth methods of dealing with pain. Around 4 hours later, and seeing I’d only progressed to 4cm dilated, I finally broke down and asked for an epidural. Unfortunately, for me and for another 12 or so women, the anesthesiologist was called away to anesthetize a woman having an emergency C-section. Which means, we waited and waited and waited and waited—and I moaned and groaned and contemplated just jumping out the window and ending it all—when finally around 2 hours later, I got the epidural—in the middle of a contraction (try holding completely still during THAT!). It helped. I could still feel the contractions, but it was like going back to earlier in the day concerning the intensity of them. I could breathe through them again and thought maybe, just maybe, I’ll survive this after all.<br /><br />With my entire lower body now relaxed due to the drugs in the epidural, within an hour-and-a-half, I dilated to 10 cm and we were on course for pushing little (or big!) Ella out. It took 2 hours and 15 minutes and I can honestly say it was the most excruciating pain I’ve ever felt. One thought that crossed my mind was, “How, if this little girl is supposedly coming out of me soon, can I still feel her feet in my ribs?” Another was, “Isn’t the epidural supposed to be helping this pain?!?”<br /><br />Nadav and my doula, Michal, were amazing – helping me get through the whole process in one piece. Also, our supporters who held down the fort outside and popped in to give words of encouragement—my mom, and Nadav’s parents—were great. Afterwards, they told me that my mom, Linda, and Mina, Nadav’s mother, were standing at the door, pushing with me every time! At one point the midwife asked me if I wanted to touch her head. I must have looked at her with a strange expression (which meant, please no!), because she asked me again, in English the second time, and I said to her and Nadav, “No, that’s ok, I’m getting the full experience from this vantage point!” (Well, maybe it wasn’t quite so eloquent, but those were my thoughts)<br /><br />As she FINALLY came out—after some Pitocin to help make my contractions more consistent and an episiotomy (dear G-d, this was TRULY my worst fear and I somehow survived it)—it’s like everything faded into the background as they placed her on my chest and her purple body, also exhausted from our efforts, wriggled up close to me. I exclaimed something like, “Oh my G-d, she’s amazing” and all the anguish I’d felt just seconds before was covered by a cloud of euphoria. The little girl that we’d been waiting for and dreaming about was finally here.<br /><br />Everyone outside—the grandparents—cried. I don’t think Nadav or I did, but if I have to give an answer why, I think it has to do with the fact that they’ve raised children and they know, more than we can at this point, just how much of a miracle a child is, all the joy that she’ll bring to our lives.<br /><br />In the week since Ella’s birth, I’ve experienced a range of emotions – marveling at her adorable facial expressions, which bring me a sense of calm and satisfaction, as well as letting myself breakdown at the thought of another painful breastfeed at 3am (thank G-d, we’re finally improving our technique).<br /><br />Sometimes, I just look at her and wonder how this little 9lb body rode around in my body and in the end came out of me. Welcome Ella Miriam Rotem, to the world. We love you and wish you a lifetime of happiness and wonderful experiences.</span></span></p><p></p><p></p><p></p></div>Beckyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16776798265430421522noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11424544.post-24078317669406043162010-11-21T08:52:00.004+02:002010-11-21T08:57:35.918+02:00The Missing Piece<div style="text-align: left;">It hit me yesterday. Week 36 and counting here at Chateau Rotem-Feinberg, and suddenly I felt it. There’s something missing. No, someone. There’s someONE missing. There’s a little person, a unique entity who already has cutie-pie clothes, a stuffed lilac Huffalump, books and even a yellow ducky-covered swing waiting for her – but where is she? Well, she’s a future Tel Avivian, so she must be stuck in a traffic jam.</div><br />In the meantime, I’m making preparations – largely in the form of lists – since my pregnancy-fogged brain is as sharp as a tack – shoved into a piece of gum. It’s like the gears just don’t work anymore. (Ask me sometime about how fun it was writing a PhD proposal with this level of clarity) There’s a list of things to put into my bag for the hospital. I’ve started packing it, but nobody seems to mention to you, “Oh, yeah, you’re gonna need all those things in the lead-up to the main event, so it’s not so convenient to have them all packed away.” More than once this week, I’ve rifled through the bag looking for essentials (slippers, pajama pants that actually still fit over my butt, etc.). I’ve got another list going of things that we need to do before the baby comes, including such thrilling tasks as:<br /><br />1. Clean trunk (no, SHE won’t ride there, but some of her aforementioned paraphernalia will probably need to)<br />2. Check that car seat fits in back seat (positive, but apparently it doesn’t recline enough for newborn necks – what happened to the days of just strapping babies in a papoose and hoping for the best?)<br />3. Clean closets (since the dresser/changing table we ordered may arrive AFTER our little bundle of joy and she apparently, in utero, already owns more crap than Nadav and me put together)<br />4. Clean kitchen cabinets, inside and out (yes, I know, completely unrelated to a baby, but nesting is apparently expressed in a variety of random ways)<br /><br /><div>So, I’m sure with all these lists, we’re completely prepared for Operation Baby. Except . . . I’m not an idiot, and I know that no matter how prepared you think you are, the moment you actually become a parent, your life changes forever, and the only thing on your list is something along the lines of “Love her, support her, respect her, nurture her, be there for her, whenever she needs you and even when she doesn’t, no matter what, you’re a parent now.”<br /><br /></div><div>We’re looking forward to it, to say the least.<br /></div><div><br /></div><div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhuC_Nr18SHwk6uNG5AK5-D0dOydTY08baZzyUSxGS203huQs_tYOb0qK8obwC2PZsRZkQVaRw0zoeAm6X8cUVvC1cn1Wnf-OZ9Fl_VMTALcJSYvkkumJjqmvumUuM4d7QYm_uP/s1600/IMG_8947.JPG"><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhuC_Nr18SHwk6uNG5AK5-D0dOydTY08baZzyUSxGS203huQs_tYOb0qK8obwC2PZsRZkQVaRw0zoeAm6X8cUVvC1cn1Wnf-OZ9Fl_VMTALcJSYvkkumJjqmvumUuM4d7QYm_uP/s320/IMG_8947.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5541893412279862642" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 214px; height: 320px; " /></a></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div>Beckyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16776798265430421522noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11424544.post-78763882268156899422010-08-01T10:44:00.002+03:002010-08-01T10:55:51.234+03:00Size MattersWhile the title of this blog could give my husband the impression that what you’re about to read is a glorious ode to his manly qualities, I’ll go ahead and tell you now that it’s G-rated and more focused on the “fruit” of his loins than his loins themselves.<br /><br />It just hit me – I’m halfway there. More appropriately, the darling little fetus growing inside of me (yes, I’m going to assume she’s darling already, I mean, just look at her mother) is halfway to the point of being a full-grown baby, who will hopefully enter our lives in a more visible – and of course, noisy – manner come December. I’ve known all week that I’m 20 weeks along in my pregnancy. But yesterday when I read that she’s around 10 inches long from head to foot, and without a ruler in the house (especially one with the English measurement system) to be found, I started trying to imagine about how long 10 inches is. This morning, as I started working on my computer, I realized that the screen is 11.6 inches. Ok, so assuming 10 inches is an estimate, and assuming that she’s actually a bit longer since she’s got Nadav’s genes in her, she’s the size of my laptop screen! Now THAT is something substantial. <br /><br />Sure, I felt connected to her since I found out I was pregnant, but the amazing thing about pregnancy, at least my experience has been, that each milestone brings with it another level of realization about the crazy endeavor you taking part in. The first, truly glorious (not to mention relieving) time we saw her little heart beating on the screen at the ultrasound around 9 weeks. The next time we saw it – and heard a computerized version of it – at our 13 week ultrasound. And, of course, this past week, as I’ve begun to feel her squirming (or I’d like to think dancing) around in my belly. <br /><br />My new comprehension about her size is apparently just one more step on this journey towards bringing a new life into the world. It’s funny that I’m likening her to my laptop. Just last night, I commented that Nadav’s grandmother is knitting up such a storm that there must be pink yarn fuzz flying out her windows – a friend on Facebook then asked me if she could knit him a laptop cover, and I said, “No, she’s too busy making baby clothes.” I guess babies and laptops have more similarities than I realized.<br /><br />For those interested, I’ve now posted (below) some of my (mainly bodily function-related) insights from earlier in the pregnancy – written back when the info was still “classified”. But as with every conspiracy – there comes a time when the truth comes out: in this case, due to photographic evidence received by the court, in the form of documented growth of aforementioned belly.<br /><br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj0SWoaDqKNr8SM8Mdi-KRPJ0A5_CG3oOoUx0ebfmWwoObrXhnjlg0EqKGIKWpabvAQqAi7wN9rTFiyPfiajzpkTZdqDE6-H__eBDI5ApVVyY2zqr-ZKSQCtYRqixHIGhNzJG5X/s1600/19+w+2+d.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 240px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj0SWoaDqKNr8SM8Mdi-KRPJ0A5_CG3oOoUx0ebfmWwoObrXhnjlg0EqKGIKWpabvAQqAi7wN9rTFiyPfiajzpkTZdqDE6-H__eBDI5ApVVyY2zqr-ZKSQCtYRqixHIGhNzJG5X/s320/19+w+2+d.JPG" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5500346041647849474" /></a>Beckyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16776798265430421522noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11424544.post-44911213900368819232010-08-01T10:36:00.002+03:002010-08-01T11:05:22.302+03:00<span style="font-weight:bold;">April 29, 2010<br />My Streak is Broken<br /></span><br />I'm reminded of "The Dinner Party," that Seinfeld episode where Jerry eats a black and white cookie and it makes him throw up, ending his 14 year (or something like that) non-vomit streak. I'm not sure the last time I vomited, but let's just say that whatever streak I had, it's gone after this morning's events.<br /><br />In any case, grilled cheese is certainly not on my list of things to eat in the near future (I know, weird that I had grilled cheese for breakfast, but's like the only thing I could think of eating, and apparently, even IT was the wrong one).<br />Now, I'm working from home (which I'd planned to do anyway) and nursing myself back to a normal (whatever that means during pregnancy) feeling stomach situation with chocolate biscuits and sips of water.<br /><br />Eventually, I'll have to shake myself out of this stupor and eat something normal, but I don't wannnnaaaaa . . .<br /><br /><span style="font-weight:bold;">May 5, 2010<br />To puke or not to puke . . .<br /></span><br />So, no, not that I'm trying to equate myself with the Bard himself, but I gotta say, yesterday it was a real dilemma. I felt soooo horrible, and was a second away from throwing up for about 5 hours straight, not to mention wonderful heartburn, something I've only experienced during pregnancy. Anyways, nature played its course, deciding for me that vomiting was the way to go, somewhere around 5 pm, and I felt much better (everything is relative, remember) afterwards.<br /><br />Anyways, today I am giving a presentation in my thesis advisor's seminar class, around 2:30, and I'm REALLY hoping that my stomach cooperates. I've decided that if I even feel like I have to vomit beforehand, I'm just gonna do it (oh, how I hate it, I will usually do ANYTHING to avoid it). It's not worth the risk of being in the middle of presenting my research and suddenly having to excuse myself. "And previous researchers have found that. . . " (wretching sound) Yeah, not worth the risk.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight:bold;">May 20, 2010<br />I feel like a failure (or "Does projectile vomiting warrant a sick day from work?")<br /></span><br />I feel like a failure. I should, I guess. I failed not one but two tests today. I should have known when I woke up this morning that I was not going to do well. Last night and this morning, the omens were there: grumbling tummy in the middle of the night since I hadn't eaten enough before going to sleep, and in the morning, I barely peed. Just to catch you up to speed, I was on my way to blood and urine tests this morning at the local clinic - about a 10 minute walk away - and I had to fast the night before. I got there, didn't have to wait very long and went into the nurse's room. Blood pressure: Check. Weight: Check. Height: Check (well, kind of, I am apparently 2 cm shorter than I've been telling everyone). Blood test: Check. She stuck me, got a good vein the first time around and I didn't even feel woozy at the sight of the needle poking out of my arm. <br /><br />Now, the big show: urine test. Well, I was a bit worried since I felt dehydrated yesterday - and I'd only had half a bottle of water during my 10-minute walk to the clinic that morning - that I wasn't going to get an A plus on this test. But I did not expect such a poor turnout by my kidneys. I mean, I'm a pregnant woman, for G-d's sake. Isn't that what we do? Pee? All the time? Apparently not. This morning it was not happening and I squeezed out about enough liquid to wet a postage stamp. The nurse shook her head at me dolefully and gave me another cup to try again at home another morning. <br /><br />I thought to myself: Ok, I do NOT want to fast again. And I am SURE I can pee. I mean, this is not rocket science. So, I went downstairs, filled up my trusty water bottle, and went outside to sit on a bench, binge-drink, and encourage my kidneys to start filtering away. This, it seems, was NOT the best idea. The best idea would have been for me to eat the banana in my bag, walk home slowly, and try again another day. It seems that cold water, drunk like a woman exiting the Sahara doesn't really agree with a 10-week along fetus, who at this hour of the morning would like to still be in a cozy, warm bed (preferably being fed dry Cheerios).<br /><br />I drank one bottle and still didn't have to pee. So, I decided to start bottle number 2. If anyone ever asks you the question, how much water can a 10-week pregnant woman's stomach hold before exploding like the Icelandic volcano, the answer is: 1.5 bottles (or to be exact 749 ml). Milliliter 750 put me over the edge, and put my head in the bushes. "Luckily" for me, I was next to a hedge, which doesn't really allow for easy maneuver - let's just say, more discreet vomiting than this has certainly been accomplished by others. The water exited my body with the gusto of a fire hose and I managed - through a combination of leaning over INTO the hedge - to get it on my entire face, jeans, and open-toed sandals. Lovely. I did have a beautiful scarf with me (thanks Mom) that allowed me at least to wipe my face and glasses.<br />I wasn't sure how much I'd really thrown up, but I figured at least SOME of the water I'd drunk must still be in my stomach. So, a few minutes later, I climbed the clinic stairs once again, for round number 2 (I'm a glutton for punishment). My showing was a bit more respectable this time around, but certainly not enough, and I decided to call it a day - at least in this realm - at the early hour of 8:15. There's always next week.Beckyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16776798265430421522noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11424544.post-42113336244563704112010-05-01T10:06:00.003+03:002013-01-05T22:11:43.435+02:00Bird’s eye viewA few months ago, in an attempt to make up for lost time and correspondence, I wrote an epic of an email to my friend, Beth, an artist, a dreamer, and an adventurer, and described to her my home in Ramat Hasharon, Israel. At the time, we were living in a basement apartment of a private family home, belonging to a family, whose lives we were quite acquainted with due to our close proximity. I wrote to her how despite being in the basement, we did have windows and my favorite one was at the top of the stairs leading out of the apartment. From my favorite blue recliner – located in our living room – I had a view of this window, which gave me a small, but usually accurate indication of what was going on “surface level.” I could see from there a beautiful tree, which sometimes to our chagrin and sometimes to our amazement, housed hundreds of fruit bats. I’m reminded of the silly homemade craft (sometimes a rock on a string, sometimes just a string) that’s supposed to serve as a weather monitor: “If the rock is wet, it’s raining. If the rock is hot, it’s sunny, etc. etc.” <br />
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Anyways, this tree provided me with an idea of what the weather was outside: “If the tree is blowing in the wind, it’s windy, if it’s wet, it’s raining.”<br />
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Now, from my blue chair, currently located much more in the middle of things –in our new apartment on a main street in Tel Aviv – I don’t really need a tree to tell me what’s happening. I simply open the giant window in my living room, feel the weather, hear the traffic (and of course, a few birds determined to tweet their messages to one another despite the honking cars), and know what’s going on. After all, now we’re “above the ground people,” no snobbery intended.<br />
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From here, I can see a tree (two even!) the way I think they were supposed to be seen – not by humans of course, but by our flight-blessed friends, the birds. I left a small rug out to dry on the railing guarding our picture window and yesterday a bird decided it was a much nicer landing pad than the bare railing. I’m thinking about just leaving it there – just in case he visits again.<br />
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Of course, as one can imagine, Tel Aviv is not all about nature. We can also see from our window 3 tall skyscrapers, which at night are lit up. This is Nadav’s favorite view. Me, though, I think I’ll stick with the birds.Beckyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16776798265430421522noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11424544.post-25560428734487479402010-01-02T13:50:00.002+02:002010-01-02T13:54:14.137+02:00The worst two weeks, or My renewed faith in humanity<span style="font-style:italic;">The following post was written in two sittings, one on Dec.25, Christmas morning, and the other on Dec. 28:</span><br /><br /><span style="font-style:italic;">December 25:</span><br />I’m sitting here in the blue LazyBoy, wrapped up in a blanket, with a warm (slowly cooling) cup of coffee next to me. It’s early—7:40 am. Too early to be up on a Friday morning. All I can think of is that my body is programmed to wake up early on Christmas. What? No presents under the tree. What? No tree, even?? Well, no, but I’m ok with that. I mean, I AM Jewish, and it IS Israel. But I still would have liked to sleep in; that would have been a nice present.<br /><br />It’s been a rough two weeks. In fact, as we lay in bed last night, and snuggled under the warm covers, Nadav labeled it “The worst two weeks of my life.” I’m not sure. Granting it a title such as that will require me to think a bit harder and longer. But I can say, it was a damn hard two weeks.<br /><br />I feel that up until now, I’ve been in this whirlwind of activity and only now, as the week draws to a close am I able to sit down, drink something warm, breathe and decompress a bit.<br /><br />It began last week, when we “lost a friend.” I realized the irony, or just ridiculousness, of euphemisms, when I said that to a friend, whose native language is not English: “We lost a friend this week,” I told her. “What do you mean?” she asked me, forcing me to be more specific. “A friend ours,” I continued, deciding in my mind how to phrase it, “A friend of ours committed suicide.” But in my head, I still think of us as “losing him.” It’s no coincidence that in Hebrew “to commit suicide” and “to lose” or “lost” are from the same root. I only realized the connection—and depth—of this fact this week. We truly lost him. To his own depression, to his internal suffering, to his fear, to something. I’ve figured out the only way I can really cope and move on is to pretend to myself that he was killed by some outside force. Accepting that someone could go against a human being’s most basic instinct—to survive—is too much for a normative person to fathom. But perhaps I am wrong. Perhaps our most basic instinct is to preserve ourselves—not only in the physical manner—and his choice (the way I see it, forced upon him by something I cannot understand) allowed him to reach that goal.<br /><br />Though I knew it would take some time to deal with this loss, I thought at least we’d be able to see it in the perspective of our lives—overall, a positive, loving, supportive environment that Nadav and I have created together for our mutual benefit. <br /><br />The fact that we were still able, despite the shock and the pain and the sometimes turbulent emotions we had expressed only moments before, to lay down together at night and hug one another and even laugh impressed upon me that I am truly the luckiest person in the world.<br /><br /><span style="font-style:italic;">December 28:</span><br />However, as it tends to do, life surprised us yet again. The following week, we arrived at the women’s health center to have an ultrasound. Yes, the young couple (“ha-zug ha-tari”) is expecting a baby. Though I had planned to go in myself, for some reason I asked Nadav to come with me. I even said to him, “When we hear the heartbeat, I’ll want you there. And G-d forbid, we don’t, I’ll need you there.” Unfortunately, it turned out to be the latter. I was 9 weeks, 1 day pregnant. The fetus had stopped developing at 8 weeks and 3 days and there was no heartbeat. We were crushed. Yet, when I realize what the alternatives are: finding out, by accident, that I’d miscarried, or worse, losing the developing baby later in pregnancy, I am grateful that it happened this way. <br /><br />“In times like these, it is always good to remember, there have always been times like these.” I didn’t think this at the time, but now it pops up in my head, and I think that thoughts like this—understanding that so many women experience this—helped me cope. The statistics vary, but I’ve found online that between 15-25% pregnancies end in miscarriage. Why do we not know this? Well, if you have a miscarriage you will. Because when women find out, they begin to open up and share their stories.<br /><br />I decided that this “silence,” on such a (common) physically and emotionally traumatic occurrence, is the reason I wanted to share my experience. I’m not sure of exactly all the emotions that I’m experiencing right now, but when I think about it, the emotions I have possibly experienced, and those that have been shared with me since I have spoken with others in the past week include:<br />• Bewilderment – But why did it happen? What did I do/not do? What could I have done differently?<br />This bewilderment, of course, is accompanied by:<br />• Feelings of guilt – Imagining, even though you’ll never know the reason, that you may have pinpointed what happened and then blaming yourself for it.<br />Not to mention:<br />• Fear for the future – Which I have luckily managed to avoid feeling, since I have been blessed to hear the stories of other mothers with miscarriage/s in their past.<br /><br />For the purpose of illustration, in my case, the week our friend died, a week before we found out about the miscarriage, I experienced severe lower back pain (before we found about our friend). Since I wanted to avoid taking medicine during this early stage of pregnancy, I tried using a bit of heat (not too much) and a bit of massage. Additionally, I visited a reflexologist. Here, already, in the span of two sentences, I have three possible “culprits” for the miscarriage:<br />1. Maybe I used too much heat, something that is known to be bad for the developing fetus?<br />2. Maybe we massaged the wrong part of the back, inducing a miscarriage?<br />3. Maybe the reflexologist—despite being trained to treat pregnant women—did something wrong?<br />Or, more likely, maybe the back pain—which since going through the miscarriage has disappeared—was an indication of problems with the pregnancy and rather than serving as a cause of the miscarriage was a sign of it.<br /><br />Here, I will mention, that when discovering that a pregnancy has ended, and the miscarriage has not yet fully happened, there are several options (from what I know):<br />1. Waiting for the miscarriage to naturally occur<br />2. D & C – a surgery to remove the fetus, placenta, etc.<br />3. Medication to induce the cleansing of the womb<br /><br />The specialist I was referred to suggested option 3, which taking my traumatic appendectomy experience into account, seemed a good option to avoid surgery and not have the miscarriage take me by surprise.<br /><br />What is interesting is that you’ll find plenty of articles, especially on pregnancy websites, about “dealing with the loss,” coping with the emotional side of the miscarriage. This should, of course, be applauded—that there is an awareness of the gut-wrenching, soul-searching experience miscarriage constitutes for expecting women and their families. Yet there is strikingly less (publicly available) literature about the physical experience of miscarriage.<br /><br />It is not overly shocking, when we think about the taboo placed upon menstruating women and the “impurities” traditionally associated with “womanly processes.” Most of what you’ll find are descriptions of a “heavy periods.” My dear readers, I do not wish to shock or offend your senses, but I will tell you that some women—including myself—experience much more than a heavy period. There is very strong pain—“cramping” does not do it justice, it is more similar to contractions.<br /><br />In my case, I experienced two heavy rounds of this—one about 8 hours after taking the medication to induce the miscarriage and another 4 days after. I had already begun feeling a bit better, and I was (thank G-d) on my way to the doctor, when I began to feel severe cramps. I arrived in tears and doubled over in pain, and thanks to quick and competent care by my doctor and several compassionate nurses, I passed what I hope is the last chapter in this story. <br /><br />Yet here it is only right for me to mention why my I granted my post a double title: The worst two weeks, or My renewed faith in humanity. Despite the rollercoaster of emotions we’ve felt in the past two weeks, despite the loss and the pain, both emotional and physical, despite the fear and the desire to never again experience either of the two experiences we’ve dealt with, despite all of this—I have witnessed and been the recipient of true compassion, in both words and actions. I have seen the true suffering of people I thought were one-dimensional, showing me that everyone has “another side.” I have heard the stories of those who have experienced what I have and conquered their doubts and gone on to have happy, healthy children. I have been called “sweetie” by an entire medical staff and received the treatment a child receives from her mother—from people who just met me. In short, I can say now that when it happens—one day, when have our child—I will be happy to bring it into this world. There are people and experiences here that make life worth living.Beckyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16776798265430421522noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11424544.post-23035477702800805222009-05-16T12:02:00.014+03:002010-08-01T11:45:44.789+03:00Our House is a Very, Very, Very Fine House<span style=";font-family:trebuchet ms;font-size:100%;"></span><p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; line-height: normal;font-family:arial;"><link rel="File-List" href="file:///C:%5CDOCUME%7E1%5Cbecky%5CLOCALS%7E1%5CTemp%5Cmsohtmlclip1%5C01%5Cclip_filelist.xml"><link rel="themeData" href="file:///C:%5CDOCUME%7E1%5Cbecky%5CLOCALS%7E1%5CTemp%5Cmsohtmlclip1%5C01%5Cclip_themedata.thmx"><link rel="colorSchemeMapping" href="file:///C:%5CDOCUME%7E1%5Cbecky%5CLOCALS%7E1%5CTemp%5Cmsohtmlclip1%5C01%5Cclip_colorschememapping.xml"><!--[if gte mso 9]><xml> <w:worddocument> <w:view>Normal</w:View> <w:zoom>0</w:Zoom> <w:trackmoves/> <w:trackformatting/> <w:punctuationkerning/> 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style="font-style: italic;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;">With 12 cats in the yard, life used to be so hard, now everything is easy ‘cause of you.</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p> <p class="MsoPlainText" style="font-family:trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><o:p><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;"> </span></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoPlainText" style="font-family:trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;">
<br /></span></span></p><p class="MsoPlainText" style="font-family:trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;">Lately, I’ve realized just how much appreciate where I live. No, I don’t mean Israel. I mean the suburbs. Now, those of you who have heard me talk about Ramat Hasharon know that it hasn’t always been my favorite place in the world. Back when Nadav and I were dating—ahhh, the good ‘ole days—it took me longer to get to Ramat Hasharon on a bus from Jerusalem, a mere 47 miles away, than to Haifa, 100 miles away. <o:p></o:p></span></span></p> <p class="MsoPlainText" style="font-family:trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><o:p><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;"> </span></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoPlainText" style="font-family:trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;">
<br /></span></span></p><p class="MsoPlainText" style="font-family:trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;">Then, of course, there was Nadav’s bachelor pad, home of 3 single men, 5 computers, a cat-scratched (and probably sprayed) couch, and not a bottle of Mr.Clean to be found. Tuna and tomato paste was the cuisine, and therefore, I kept my distance.<o:p></o:p></span></span></p> <p class="MsoPlainText" style="font-family:trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><o:p><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;"> </span></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoPlainText" style="font-family:trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;">
<br /></span></span></p><p class="MsoPlainText" style="font-family:trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;">A few months before we got married, though, last year. Ramat Hasharon turned out to be a good choice for us. Nadav worked nearby, and since I was going to be looking for a new job as I had finished most of my master’s degree classes at the Hebrew University in Jerusalem, it seemed the affordable, close-enough-to-Tel Aviv choice.<o:p></o:p></span></span></p> <p class="MsoPlainText" style="font-family:trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;">
<br /></span></span></p><p class="MsoPlainText" style="font-family:trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;">Ramat Hasharon is known throughout Israel as being one of the new places for the affluent, starting-their-families Tel Avivians to move after they’ve had enough of big city life. While the house prices in Ramat Hasharon are way beyond our budget as a young couple, renting here is much more affordable than in Tel Aviv itself. Luckily, we found a half-basement apartment (we have light and air!) in a private home. It was spacious, renovated, and came with really wonderful landlords. <o:p></o:p></span></span></p> <p class="MsoPlainText" style="font-family:trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><o:p><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;"> </span></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoPlainText" style="font-family:trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;">
<br /></span></span></p><p class="MsoPlainText" style="font-family:trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;">Despite all that, it was hard—very hard. The neighborhood we live in is a mix of a bit more established, secular Israelis and very traditional Yemenite Israelis. We didn’t find ourselves religiously or socially falling into either circle. I was moving from the Katamon neighborhood of Jerusalem, a place known for its young, religious-but-open-minded crowd to a home next to the </span><a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Shas"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;">Shas</span></a><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;"> <span style="text-decoration: underline;"></span><a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Shas"></a>headquarters. <o:p></o:p></span></span></p> <p class="MsoPlainText" style="font-family:trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><o:p><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;"> </span></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoPlainText" style="font-family:trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;">
<br /></span></span></p><p class="MsoPlainText" style="font-family:trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;">In addition, I was looking for a job for a large part of the time we’ve been here. While I job-searched, I worked on my thesis and ran a home business in </span><a href="http://israelenglishediting.com/"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;">editing and translation</span></a><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;">, but I’m a people person—and it was difficult having to leave most of my friends in Jerusalem, despite having my best friend here with me, and spend a lot of time on my own.<o:p></o:p></span></span></p> <p class="MsoPlainText" style="font-family:trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><o:p><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;"> </span></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoPlainText" style="font-family:trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;">
<br /></span></span></p><p class="MsoPlainText" style="font-family:trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;">Luckily, I recently started working in Tel Aviv. Getting out of the house on a regular basis has been good for my heart, soul, and outlook on life.<o:p></o:p></span></span></p> <p class="MsoPlainText" style="font-family:trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><o:p><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;"> </span></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoPlainText" style="font-family:trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;">With these new rose-colored glasses, I’ve been able to appreciate a lot of the things around me:<o:p></o:p></span></span></p> <p class="MsoPlainText" style="font-family:trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><o:p><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;"> </span></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoPlainText" style="font-family:trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;">
<br /></span></span></p><p class="MsoPlainText" style="font-family:trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;">A few weeks ago, a mother cat brought her litter of kittens to hang out in our front yard for a while. Seeing these little guys play and bounce and experience things in life for the first time brought Nadav and me so much happiness! Unfortunately, our landlord was not such a fan and exiled them to another yard.<o:p></o:p></span></span></p> <p class="MsoPlainText" style="font-family:trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><o:p><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;"> </span></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoPlainText" style="font-family:trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;">
<br /></span></span></p><p class="MsoPlainText" style="font-family:trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;">On the animal front, I have to mention another star in our neighborhood cast of characters: Jongo the Dog. Jongo is a jolly ole' dog, a black Labrador-looking (but probably not being) dog, who is missing a foot. Before we knew Jongo's name, we used to call him "Happy Dog" because this dog simply gushes joy. Jongo is the happiest being I've ever witnessed. His existence as a "Trumpel-dog" (maybe only the Israeli history buffs will understand this nickname) in no way hinders his love of life, plastic bottles, and neighborhood cats. My favorite interactions with him always involve one of the neighborhood cats, who know him better than we do and know that the only reason to run from him is if you don't want to get licked.<o:p></o:p></span></span></p> <p class="MsoPlainText" style="font-family:trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><o:p><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;"> </span></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoPlainText" style="font-family:trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;">
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Despite my love affair with Jerusalem, I am getting along fine here in the traffic-jammed center of the country. And even though everyone claims Tel Aviv, the city that doesn’t sleep, is the place to be, I’m happy to be about 10 miles out, where we can still hear birds and play with Jongo.<o:p></o:p></span></span></p> <p class="MsoPlainText" style="font-family:trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><o:p><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;"> </span></o:p></span></p> <span style="font-size:100%;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;">
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<br /><o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; line-height: normal;font-family:arial;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><o:p> </o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; line-height: normal; font-family:arial;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><o:p> </o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; line-height: normal; font-family:arial;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><o:p> </o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; line-height: normal;font-family:trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><o:p> </o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; line-height: normal;font-family:trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><o:p> </o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" face="arial" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; line-height: normal;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><o:p> </o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" face="arial" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; line-height: normal;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><o:p> </o:p></span></p>Beckyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16776798265430421522noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11424544.post-72860009344967648732009-02-10T12:04:00.004+02:002009-02-10T12:14:04.095+02:00The Spurious Claim of the "Wasted Vote"<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjLr3SCS8VuZShgHHqQEPTUpYkA_07uBMBvXJ84EJtraFkRYPQBtTWw-PJ0JXfHozzN3ObFjsnnGOE4bWOQAr_o2p6gyC2yW2JxvMBXd7fOhjZbmxi_4MYyfUGLJb1Ls45_p559/s1600-h/3001697116_58c21e9a18.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjLr3SCS8VuZShgHHqQEPTUpYkA_07uBMBvXJ84EJtraFkRYPQBtTWw-PJ0JXfHozzN3ObFjsnnGOE4bWOQAr_o2p6gyC2yW2JxvMBXd7fOhjZbmxi_4MYyfUGLJb1Ls45_p559/s320/3001697116_58c21e9a18.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5301109272467247090" border="0" /></a><br /><br />As a political science graduate student, a few things get my goat:<br /><br /><ul><li>People who still think that the definition of democracy is black and white</li><li>People who try to talk politics with you at otherwise leisurely dinners (yes, studying politics, reading new about politics, and writing a thesis about politics actually IS enough for me)</li><li>And the term “wasted vote”</li></ul><br />Maybe I’m just being idealistic here (never been accused of THAT before), but I think a vote that is put in the ballot box is NEVER a wasted vote. You see, I come from a country where there really only are two choices on election day. Ok sure, I get to participate in electing candidates for a variety of offices, but the differences between the policies and areas of focus of each of the parties’ candidates do not vary all that much within each party (and sometimes not even BETWEEN the parties, despite what their campaign messages would have us believe).<br /><br />Yet, now I find myself, the child of a two-party system suddenly placed in a virtual circus of parties—some care about the environment, others care about education, some care about security and others about the economy. In fact, some even care about IMPORTANT things such as legalizing marijuana!<br /><br />And so, rather than automatically choosing a large party to defeat “the other party,” I contemplate choosing a smaller one, one that reflects my values, my beliefs. Of course, the fear of the party not passing the threshold necessary to enter the Knesset looms large before my eyes, and I think to myself, “What if my vote, my single tiny vote, prevents Israel from having a center-left government? What if MY vote is the one that allows a closed-minded, and in many ways immoral, coalition to lead my country for the next few years?” In short, what if my vote is a “wasted vote”?<br /><br />But I think that on several levels, a vote that is cast is not a wasted vote. On one level, the legitimacy of Israeli democracy is strengthened by every vote cast in a secret and free manner. The participation of Israeli citizens in the process of electing their leaders is in and of itself one major reason that even if a vote gets “thrown away” because the party did not pass the threshold, one has done her civic duty—one has participated in a process banned or corrupted in so much of the world.<br /><br />Beyond this simple expression of democratic behavior, I think that the thought and evaluation process that goes into choosing a party that is not “guaranteed” a place in the next Knesset is different than choosing one of the major parties. The “default” as it were is to choose Kadima, Likud,or Avoda (Labor). To decide to vote for another party is a conscious decision, a statement that “business as usual” does not reflect my values or my vision of what Israeli society should be.<br /><br />For this reason, when I listen to the election results, I may be elated, I may be disappointed, but I won’t feel my vote was wasted.Beckyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16776798265430421522noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11424544.post-7707059276739951532009-01-24T22:23:00.007+02:002009-01-25T09:34:06.850+02:00Finding my Calling in Life . . . Or at least realizing my skills are valued by the porn industryAnd suddenly, it became clear to me why they were still looking for someone to fill his job after three months of searching.<br /><br />But I’ll start at the beginning because as Julie Andrews once said (or sang), “It’s a very good place to start.”<br /><br />I began looking for work a few months back. In the meantime, I’ve done some freelance work, finished some papers for school, started my thesis, banged my head against the wall (a few hundred times), and managed to find a job. Well, kind of. The short story is that after a few offers—which I didn’t want—I decided to take a part-time job in addition to my freelance editing/writing work.<br /><br />Said job began a few weeks ago and consisted of me working for approximately a week after which I was informed that they didn’t exactly have a budget for me yet and would I mind waiting another few weeks to begin my position. Needless to say, I was not amused and began the soul-destroying search for work again. My somewhat more spiritual tendencies are giving my cynical side a dirty look right now implying that we should try to make all of our experiences in life opportunities to learn about ourselves. In fact, I have learned a lot about myself—and about my wonderful husband, who has managed to put up with me, the depressed troll of a job-seeker I’ve become. Yet the cynical side prevails—looking for a job, in today’s abysmal market, with a master’s degree in something other than telemarketing or secretarial duties is soul-destroying.<br /><br />But then I got the call. After applying for a number of content writing jobs--because, hey, if nothing else, I know how to talk (and type) a blue streak—I got a call from a headhunter company about my resume. “Adi” informed me that my skills seemed suited to a hi-tech company looking for a content writer. “Sounds great,” I said to her. “What’s the name of the company?” To maintain their privacy (and prevent me from being sued . . . <a href="http://beckysadventure.blogspot.com/2007_07_01_archive.html">AGAIN</a>), let’s just call them “Cool Runnings.” I’d heard of Cool Runnings before and had in fact sent them my resume a few months ago for a content writer position. Their website stated that they were a young and dynamic company which manages a number of recreational websites. They were looking for a native English speaker who “thinks outside the box.” I thought to myself, “I’m their gal. I’m a creative, liberal thinker. I’m young, hip, and well, ‘cool’ like their company name.” But no call came for several months. Only this week, when Adi spoke to me, did I realize it was the same position.<br /><br />“They’re a hi-tech company in every way,” she explained. “Ok,” I said. “And the content is in the field of ‘entertainment for adults,” she continued. “Excuse me?” I asked, buying a bit of time to try to figure out if my brain correctly understood the Hebrew phrase she used—and if, in fact, that phrase meant the same thing in Israel. “Entertainment for adults,” she repeated. “Hmm. . . ok,” I said, hesitating before asking the inevitable. “So, I’m a bit embarrassed to ask,” I said, because <span style="font-style: italic;">obviously</span> it couldn’t be what I was thinking she meant, “Is it in a bit more . . .ummm . . . <span style="font-style: italic;">blue</span> direction?” “Listen,” she said, “It’s not a porno company or something.” “So, what do you they do?” “Dating sites, that kind of thing.” “Ok,” I thought, “Like J-date, or E-harmony.”<br /><br />As it turns it, it was soooooo not like J-date (at least not the J-date I’m used to hearing about). When the company manager called to speak with me, she immediately asked me if I knew what the company did. “Content management?” I asked innocently. “Dating sites, no? Something like that?” I continued hopefully. And after a flowery speech about the fifteen million users of their website (which it is important to mention impressed me), she laid it all out for me. “We’re looking for something to write content for our sex site.” After a stunned silence, a few questions should come to your mind: 1) What “content” is there really on a sex site? 2) As popular as porn is on the internet, you call yourselves successful for having only 15 million users? 3) Do you really think most native English speakers in Israel really made Aliyah and moved to the Holy Land to write for porn sites? 4) Did you not read on my resume that I have worked for a feminist organization, a yeshiva, and have edited books in the academia? I’m sorry, sentences such as, “Hi, I’m Candy, wanna ^%&$?” never really came up in the articles I edited on the role of mass communication in modern democracies or discourse analysis in politics.<br /><br />Also, can we just imagine for a moment where this job can take me in the future? I’m picturing at my next job interview, a few years down the line: “So Becky, what did you do at Cool Runnings?” “Oh, it was great, I wrote content for them.” “Really, where could we find some of your work?” “Well, don’t bother looking in the New York Times, or even the Jerusalem Post—your best bet is to probably Google ‘hot chicks’ or something of that nature.”<br /><br />As I post this, I am just wondering how many people will probably accidentally arrive at my blog from searching for “hot chicks” and will be sorely disappointed at the lack of “hot chicks” on this page. Of course, now that I’ve written those keywords a few times, I’m sure my search engine optimization has gone up. Maybe I’ll have fifteen million users soon? Nahhhh . . .I think there may be too much <span style="font-style: italic;">actual</span> content here.<br /><br />Note: I did NOT go to the job interview for this position (there was just a bit of confusion regarding that point for some of my readers . . . some of whom that that maybe I <span style="font-style: italic;">should </span>have!).Beckyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16776798265430421522noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11424544.post-6416948141880585462008-12-31T20:17:00.004+02:002008-12-31T20:45:05.374+02:00In a New York Minute<div>It's the end of the year, and looking back, I'm sure many of us are thinking how frivolously we used our time. Of course, there were things that were well-worth the time--the day of my wedding for instance. Yet, what of all those times I zoomed about the internet looking for the perfect veil? </div><div><br /></div><div>I turned in a paper today, for instance, on which I spent a good couple of months--time well worth it. What about all the time I checked my email, the news, the weather, Facebook, and more when <span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: italic;">I should have been working</span> on my paper--time used less wisely.</div><div><br /></div><div>Today, on the day so many are looking back and thinking of time and what they did with it, my friend reminded me how time really is of the essence. "A minute is so much better than 15 seconds," she said to me on the phone. On the surface, nothing exceptional. Sure, a minute is better than 15 seconds in many cases--more time to sleep, more time to get ready in the morning. Nadav often says to me when we're getting ready to leave the house, "I'll be ready in two minutes." Two minutes is no time, right?</div><div><br /></div><div>Taking into account, though, the circumstances under which she made this comment made me realized just how much time a minute can be: it's enough time to move your family from the living room to the protected room--the one with concrete, re-inforced walls. It's enough time to run down the stairs, if need be, to your apartment building's shelter. It's enough time to pick up your child and run for dear life, for his life.</div><div><br /></div><div>She lives in Beer Sheva and works in Sderot. A few days ago, we could have said, "She lives in a place where the rockets can't reach and works in a place where for the last 7 years, over 8,000 Kassam rockets have fallen." Now, we must say, "She now lives in a place where the rockets can reach her and her family and several hundred thousand other people." There are warning sirens, to be sure. In Sderot, they give you 15 seconds, if you are lucky and the siren sounds. In Beer Sheva, you have a minute. "A minute is so much better than 15 seconds."</div><div><br /></div><div>I think of the millions of people who will watch the ball drop in Times Square this evening and of the countdown as the ball moves down towards ringing in the new year. Wouldn't it be amazing if everyone counting down suddenly understood that some people in the world have even less time than that to try to save themselves and their families?</div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div> </div>Beckyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16776798265430421522noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11424544.post-89567310838691728862008-12-19T08:56:00.002+02:002008-12-19T09:01:06.665+02:00Launch of an Amazing New Technology WebsiteFor all you engineers out there, looking for an efficient tool,<a href="http://www.c-to-verilog.com"> C-to-Verilog.com</a> offers conversion from C to Verilog. It creates hardware circuits in the blink of an eye (or the click of a mouse!) and assists you in accelerating your development cycle. My husband opened it as a hobby--if you have any engineering or programmer friends, please send them the link.Beckyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16776798265430421522noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11424544.post-23158430806954062282008-12-02T10:02:00.003+02:002008-12-02T10:12:57.442+02:00It’s why I’ll never be a successful comedian . . .<div>I realized recently that it’s been absolutely ages since I’ve written. No, I haven’t experienced any major traumas. In fact, I’ve experienced many wonderful things this year. I married my wonderful Nadav. My family came to Israel, most of them for the first time, for the wedding. But I think here is where the difficulty lies. There were many, MANY things to write about the wedding and probably even more about wedding planning. But I care too much. You see, due to my natural ability to take most unpleasant occurrences and, well, make fun of them, I would have had a lot of material during the months it took to plan the wedding. Titles that could have been included in my repertoire include:<br /><br />“The perks of finding a wedding hall located directly across the street from a strip club” (yes, I know, a bit wordy, but these are rough drafts)<br /><br />“The perks of finding a wedding hall located directly across the street from an auto mechanic” (oh, I’m sorry, am I lacking creativity?)<br /><br />“To sparkle or not to sparkle: Fireworks lining the wedding canopy, Israeli makeup artists, and a low-key bride’s fight for survival”<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj8wIvGdHzVYC5V5T8A0apDDOrzm8ddsrsC6Z6a_4mAVKjAhNTBjQZZhs0V_R65KU1aPCvAFrU7wnsVKbKFXs3qPHKBVKww1jr2eYdECpbWEKtgIIRmOCVdU4FQdKe83Xod5XlX/s1600-h/19-9-08++0101.JPG"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 214px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj8wIvGdHzVYC5V5T8A0apDDOrzm8ddsrsC6Z6a_4mAVKjAhNTBjQZZhs0V_R65KU1aPCvAFrU7wnsVKbKFXs3qPHKBVKww1jr2eYdECpbWEKtgIIRmOCVdU4FQdKe83Xod5XlX/s320/19-9-08++0101.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5275102557204049746" border="0" /></a><br />As you may gather from these possible titles, planning the wedding was, in short, something of a circus—and I am glad that I have finally settled into “boring” married life.<br /><br />In any case, it took a significant amount of restraint NOT to say everything I wish I could have about the conversations I was forced to endure with everyone in the Israeli wedding industry. When one makeup artist attempted to convince me why I absolutely MUST get a pedicure, she quite simply stated, “It’s for your husband.” All this time I thought he appreciated my personality and brains, it was really all for my feet!!<br /><br />Of course, nobody would have cared had I simply bashed all prima donna hairstylists who really believe that anybody remember's the bride's hairstyle a week after the wedding. It was closer to home that I learned to keep my mouth shut (at least in most cases) and listen and, importantly, understand more.<br /><br />NOBODY cares about the centerpieces. And NOBODY cares about veil. And truly, NOBODY really cares even about the food. Yet, people feel the need to express their opinions and in some cases even argue over these things because . . . well, that’s exactly it. Nobody really knows. People are excited. Things are changing, and fast.<br /><br />In my case, I was marrying an oldest son. In my case, again, I was marrying someone from a side of the planet I didn’t know about until I was 18. Which of course means that for both families, mine and his, these were monumental changes.<br /><br />What our wedding day represented was the coming together of two different families, two different nationalities, two different cultures and languages and foods . . . and the list goes on.<br /><br />It wasn’t easy for Nadav’s mother to give up her first baby. It wasn’t easy for my mother to realize that, yes, I’m here, I’m staying, and I’m going to be far away from her—the same situation she created with her own mother.<br /><br />All of these emotions—joy and love, as well as uncertainty and worry—were all mixed up in the whole process called “wedding.”<br /><br />For these reasons, I couldn’t write and make fun of the strength of the emotions everyone was feeling. It would have cheapened it, made it somehow less special for me to view it with such cynical eyes.<br /><br />And so, I forge ahead, armed with writing material concerning the Israeli job search. I’m one month in, a bit more worn for the wear, but ready—at the very least—to conquer it through humor, patience (if only), and as many cups of Chai tea as it takes.<br /><br /></div><div><br /></div>Beckyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16776798265430421522noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11424544.post-26480607164617574572008-07-02T16:04:00.001+03:002008-07-02T16:28:49.958+03:00I should have been there . . . but thank G-d I wasn'tI’m sure I know this man. He must have been my bus driver at some point over the last four years I’ve lived in Jerusalem, or the last two years I’ve lived in Katamon, home to the number 13 bus line. I speak, of course, of the bus driver of bus 13, the bus that was “tipped over” by a mad man on a bulldozer in today’s attack in Jerusalem.<br /><br />The shooting of yeshiva students in the Merkaz Harav yeshiva, the last terror attack in Jerusalem—a seemingly distant memory, even though it was only this past March—scared me, but I was able to keep on going. I was forced to—we were attending our friends’ engagement party and what could we do but keep drinking our glasses of wine, toast the happy couple, and try not to think about those who were at the same time being rushed to hospitals, or alternately, put into body bags.<br /><br />Today, though, I was free to think about what happened. Free to listen to the radio as I made my way into Ramat Gan, where I was going to get a refund on a washing machine, of all the unimportant things in the world. Free to listen, over and over again, to descriptions of what had happened and where it had happened. Free to try and figure out from the clues the reporters gave if my friends could have been there—if, hypothetically, yesterday or everyday before that for the last four years I could have been there.<br /><br />Thanks to technology, I know my friends are safe. Text messages—so impersonal yet so effective—informed me that my loved ones were fine. And as many times happens, some of the friends receiving my check-up text message were clueless about the attack even happening until I asked if they were ok.<br /><br />I feel an emptiness inside and a intermittent urges to shed tears when I think about the people who could see it coming--who were trapped inside their cars or could see the bulldozer coming down the street, realizing perhaps only at the last second what was actually happening.<br /><br />I just got home and, despite my news saturation for the day, decided to see if I could pinpoint where it happened—I had to know which bus had been attacked. It was mine. But more than being my bus line—it was my city, it was my home. Any of the pedestrians, making their way down the sidewalks, any of the people in cars, trying to get through Jerusalem downtown traffic, any of these people who were brutally murdered, in a most unimaginably horrific way—any of these people could have been my friends.<br /><br />We moved on Sunday to Ramat Hasharon. And due to me studying at Hebrew University, I was in Jerusalem yesterday, literally meters from the attack site. I have this weird feeling—it’s similar to the feeling I get when something major happens to my family in America and I’m not there to go through it with them. It’s like I should have been there—but thank G-d I wasn’t.<br /><br />Today at 6pm Israel time, thousands of people will be saying Psalm 121 for the safe release of kidnapped Israeli soldier Gilad Shalit. I guess now there will be others for whom we say this psalm:<br /><br />A song of Ascent.<br /><br />I lift up my eyes to the hills.<br />What is the source of my help?<br /><br />My help comes from the Lord,<br />Maker of the heavens and the earth.<br />He will not allow you to stumble, Your Guardian will not slumber.<br /><br />Indeed, the Guardian of Israel neither slumbers nor sleeps.<br /><br />The Lord is your Guardian, your shelter at your side.<br /><br />The sun will not smite your by day nor the moon by night.<br /><br />The Lord will guard you against all evil;<br />He will guard you, body and soul.<br /><br />The Lord will guard your going out<br />And your coming home, now and forever.Beckyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16776798265430421522noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11424544.post-34004741906854068602008-06-16T19:22:00.003+03:002008-06-16T19:47:52.843+03:00Who needs symmetry anyways?As you plan your wedding (let me rephrase, if you are not a bride-zilla and actually <span style="font-style: italic;">talk</span> to your husband-to-be during wedding planning), you will learn a few things about your partner. I, for instance, learned something a bit shocking about my mathematically (and therefore, one would have thought, geometrically)-inclined partner last night, as we attended a college friend's wedding near Rehovot. It turns out that Nadav does not like asymmetrical hairdos. Now, this may not seem earth-shattering, but for someone who was planning a beautifully off-center hairdo for her big day, I found this news a bit disconcerting. Luckily, I know that men don't really know much about hairdos beyond "straight," "curly," and "ponytail," so I'm just gonna go with my instinct on this one and do what I want (I know, so out of character for me).<br /><br />In other news, we have a new (to us) car. There's such a feeling of freedom that comes from having wheels. Having traveled literally thousands of kilometers over the last 5 years on buses, trains, planes, and Pumas, I had forgotten what it's like to be behind the wheel. Oh, and how fun it is to piss off already angry drivers! Yesterday, in my leisurely drive around Jerusalem (I'm sorry, did the words "leisurely," "drive", and "Jerusalem" just exit my mouth in the same sentence?), for instance, I learned that unless I want to die an early death at the hands of an evil, chain-smoking taxi driver in the Holy City, I should probably not respond to their honks (even if my hand gestures are significantly cleaner than theirs, a wave!). The truth is, after the 67th honk of the morning, you sort of forget about it, and just fight your way through the traffic jam like everyone else--no mercy!!!<br /><br />As a native Pensacolian, and therefore someone whose only experience of a traffic jam is waiting in line at Krispy Kreme upon its re-opening (Ok, fine, I wasn't <span style="font-style: italic;">actually</span> there, but I was there in spirit!), it may take me a while to get used to the insane, seemingly eternal traffic jam that is Israel. I think the key to survival is making sure you have good music--luckily we have a <span style="font-style: italic;">cassette player</span> in our "new" car.Beckyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16776798265430421522noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11424544.post-79209656115466919672008-04-13T16:49:00.003+03:002008-04-13T16:57:44.222+03:00Sunbathers of the world, unite!<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgKcKsMaUIEnZIY9hP5BiOrTZV0fT3mqZwUEEIvpMYNu8P-9E0Sc5XhgKLzB4aZrGZyQzNSkPhm5iGUsBXFZ5KYXfBgz1POV_it1BGkoqSKaX2XyM261jldO1xymeCMYCH8XSz7/s1600-h/No+value+in+nature.jpg"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5188726856915296914" style="DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; CURSOR: hand; TEXT-ALIGN: center" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgKcKsMaUIEnZIY9hP5BiOrTZV0fT3mqZwUEEIvpMYNu8P-9E0Sc5XhgKLzB4aZrGZyQzNSkPhm5iGUsBXFZ5KYXfBgz1POV_it1BGkoqSKaX2XyM261jldO1xymeCMYCH8XSz7/s320/No+value+in+nature.jpg" border="0" /></a>Those of you who read Hebrew (and know my tree-hugging, vegetarian stances) will catch the irony here . . .<br /><br />And for those of you who don't, a short explanation: This sign says "Nature has no value". We visited this building site/nature reserve at the Palmachim Beach south of Tel Aviv last week. Basically, the state has sold a small "island" of land in the middle of a nature reserve to be developed by money-hungry, hotel builders--all at the expense of one of the few truly natural beaches left in Israel. At this time, there are protesters who have camped out on the beach, which the building company has tried to close off to the public, despite the illegality of such a move.<br /><br />For more info and/or to get involved, visit this <a href="http://www.savepalmahim.org/site/site_default.asp?Subid=117&lang=">site</a>.Beckyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16776798265430421522noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11424544.post-9754022353318199162008-02-19T09:27:00.003+02:002008-02-19T09:34:28.230+02:00Learning to Let Go and Watch the Snowflakes Fall<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgETIYUL9k2wJm7PbMR44L7R2CzQ1ArIf88cuHCDPolSd2H0szJNFoFASQ6H6PiKkhQlm3LHv4DlgNA2j4irwW60dKmgSx86246AcVNrBzD6Dk54ftXvBl28rvVDeWpsHB9fUgj/s1600-h/P1300009.JPG"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgETIYUL9k2wJm7PbMR44L7R2CzQ1ArIf88cuHCDPolSd2H0szJNFoFASQ6H6PiKkhQlm3LHv4DlgNA2j4irwW60dKmgSx86246AcVNrBzD6Dk54ftXvBl28rvVDeWpsHB9fUgj/s320/P1300009.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5168591209791444210" border="0" /></a><br />I'm taking this opportunity, this snowy, windy, cancelled-class day in Jerusalem to do a little reflection.<br /><br /><br /><br />Last night, as I listened to a few of my friends wish for snow, so work and school would be cancelled, I found myself thinking very responsibly, "But we've missed so much school already anyway from the professor's strike and the other snow day." Then, I thought to myself, "But a day off in the middle of the week <span style="font-style: italic;">would</span> be nice." Going back and forth for a few minutes, I couldn't really decide what I wanted--snow, no snow, school, no school.<br /><br />But then I realized, "Oh yeah, I guess it doesn't matter what I want, it's not really my decision anyways." And that was a freeing thought, one that I've had recently in relation to a few stressful situations in my life. There are steps we can take to influence outcomes, that is for sure. We can work hard now to hopefully benefit later. We can plan well so as to provide for a safer, more secure future. But there are forces outside of us that affect our lives in ways we could never imagine. Whether it be the stock market, a megalomaniac to the East, or an unsafe driver, there are a million things we could never see coming that <span style="font-style: italic;">could</span> alter our situations in some way.<br /><br />Conclusion? Appreciate the (s)now. I must say, as a native Floridian, snow is neither my area of expertise or my cup of tea. I have no childhood memories of building any snow creatures but a very anorexic snowman one winter in the mid-1990s. In other words, it's mainly a nuisance--a somewhat pretty nuisance, but also a darn cold and wet nuisance. Sitting here, though, instead of on the number 30 bus to the university, holding my book-laden backpack in my lap and trying not to freeze to death or get dripped on from the leaky window, <span style="font-style: italic;">is</span> something that I can appreciate.<br /><br />I can appreciate that, at least for today, there will be a nice news story in the newspapers, accompanied by pictures of kids throwing snowballs not rocks. So, it's a little bit cold and wet, but I can handle the change for a day.Beckyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16776798265430421522noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11424544.post-16645252758619868602008-01-08T22:43:00.000+02:002008-01-08T22:48:45.645+02:00Just a reminder of why diamonds are not THIS girl's best friendAnd since I'm too lazy to write tonight, I'll just refer you to a an article that is so clear, you won't need commentary. <br /><a href="http://edition.cnn.com/2008/WORLD/africa/01/08/taylor.trial.ap/index.html?iref=mpstoryview"><br />Are diamonds worth <span style="font-style: italic;">this?</span></a> This bride-to-be thinks not.Beckyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16776798265430421522noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11424544.post-38166133742543054842007-12-25T19:14:00.000+02:002007-12-26T19:18:51.576+02:00Remind me, what is the reason for the season?It took me 4 years, but I finally made it. I went in the New Gate of the Old City this morning not really knowing what to expect. It wasn't my first time in the Old City, or even the Christian Quarter, but it was my first time there on Christmas. Every year I say to myself that I will attend a Christmas Eve mass, and every year, the cold dark night that I must fight to get there seems much less inviting than my warm bed. This year, I didn't even make the promise. I simply broke the paradigm (wait, wait) and <span style="font-style: italic;">went in the morning </span>(novel, I know).<br /><br />The sun was shining, the birds were singing (ok, not sure about this one), and after a very uneventful ride on the number 13 bus to the center of town, I made my way to the Jerusalem's Old City. I think, in my head, I was picturing crowds of people--something similar to the pictures of the Via Dolorosa on Easter that I always see in the news. But it was empty. As I walked in the New Gate, there was only one person in sight . . . so I followed her. The truth is, my stereotypes took over, and because she looked Russian (no, she wasn't wearing bright pink lipstick or anything--it's Christmas, people), I figured she was a good candidate for a church-goer. Turns out, I was right (about the church-going part at least). As the cops always say at the end of murder mysteries, "She led me right to 'em" ('em, in this case, being Christians or monks or priests or . . .).<br /><br />I followed her through the winding stone alleys and down Casa Nova Street (and no, the irony of the name of this street was not lost on me). An Israeli tour group stood in the middle of the stairs of Casa Nova, but I was not tempted for a moment to stop and listen. Some things you must experience and not simply hear about. Distracted a bit by the group, I lost my "tour guide" but it turns out, she had taken me straight to a church. I walked into an enclave and saw stone steps leading up towards what I assumed was a sanctuary.<br /><br />In fact, as I saw when I stepped through the doors, it was a cathedral. I'm no architect, so I won't begin to describe buttresses or domes, but what I saw was beautiful. What I heard, though, was even more amazing. The mass that was in session rang in my bones. I sat quietly, shyly, in the last wooden pew. To my left was a nativity scene, at which entering worshippers kneeled, crossed themselves, and prayed. Around the altar which stood at the front of the the church were seated around 12 priests dressed in white robes, and throughout the gathering of about 100 worshippers, there were priests dressed in brown robes.<br /><br />While I understood very little of the mass (seems my high school Latin has not remained), the few familiar Christmas carols and the story of the Nativity (un papa un bambino--is this Italian?) did bring a smile to my face.<br /><br />But what brought tears was not any particular intellectual experience but rather a feeling. I think there are those in the world who refuse to enter holy places of other religions. This, for me, is hard to believe, because the warmth and hope I felt in this space is almost indescribable. It didn't matter that they spoke of "Christo" or recited the Nativity story rather than that of the Exodus from Egypt. I prayed there for my family celebrating Christmas, for <span style="font-style: italic;">shalom bayit </span>(peace in the family) for those who need it, for my Jewish friends to find husbands, and most of all, for peace.<br /><br />Perhaps my voice was the lone Jewish one in the crowd, but I have a good feeling that it, too, was heard.Beckyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16776798265430421522noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11424544.post-29518980002762401222007-12-08T13:17:00.000+02:002007-12-08T13:37:57.341+02:00A great miracle happened here!I would like to start this blog entry with a cup of hot chocolate . . . Ok, Done.<br /><br />I would like to continue this blog entry with a picture that will bring most of you a smile.<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhnvUfz4BbTI48fbvfbzaZKn81Mo-PgfRJerJ6Y-IBF1fcJgCtBr5OZa84VEWHnhIrAGD9_RzJws3yfGZmvYVodhD9rTNY6JsRHgBwZYBq4dnQdz1XGCByWVxY4t3tz5vEVfn28/s1600-h/norm2007.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhnvUfz4BbTI48fbvfbzaZKn81Mo-PgfRJerJ6Y-IBF1fcJgCtBr5OZa84VEWHnhIrAGD9_RzJws3yfGZmvYVodhD9rTNY6JsRHgBwZYBq4dnQdz1XGCByWVxY4t3tz5vEVfn28/s320/norm2007.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5141560866155865938" border="0" /></a>No, this is neither a new age guru nor a carnie-cum-fortune teller--this is my father, sporting this year's Chanukkah gift from our neighbors, people with big hearts and obviously too much time on their hands.<br /><br />Some of you may remember my previous post on my predictions for the Messiah arriving to Jerusalem in time to sort out my lawsuit with City Hall. As it turns out, this did not happen. However, due to a very nice judge who felt sorry for my pitiful new immigrant self, the fight for justice/logic/sanity has been moved to outside of legal arena. I've been spared! In essence, we are taking a Delorian back in time to go through the process that <span style="font-style: italic;">should have happened</span> prior to a law suit being filed. So, at least no legal costs. <br /><br />My expectations remain low, i.e., realistic. I fully expect City Hall to reject my appeal and say something to the effect of, "We don't care that it's not your debt to begin with. We are heartless trolls who who like to make old men cry in our offices (true story)--we are actually training to work at maximum security prisons in Guantanamo." But the intensity level of the whole situation being lowered is an accomplishment of its own, a modern-day Chanukkah miracle, if you will.<br /><br />Concerning any further bureaucracy, I have talked with Mr. Claus and these people will be getting coal in their stockings this year.Beckyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16776798265430421522noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11424544.post-6061022841211337182007-11-28T20:41:00.000+02:002007-11-28T20:42:53.755+02:00My thoughts exactly . . .<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://www.themastersorganics.com/images/cat_cartoon.gif"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 320px;" src="http://www.themastersorganics.com/images/cat_cartoon.gif" alt="" border="0" /></a>Beckyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16776798265430421522noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11424544.post-31795302681039933032007-11-27T21:58:00.000+02:002007-11-27T22:12:51.072+02:00I Think My Phone is Cheating on my Boyfriend (or "If you're going to date via text message, buy some more phone credit you cheapskate!")Another short anecdote from my favorite source of writing material--you got it: the Jerusalem inner-city bus.<br /><br />"Do you have a message to send?" the 19-year-old, clean-cut religious girl asked me.<br />"What?" I replied, taking off my headphones and settling into a seat at the back of the bus.<br />"Do you have a message to send?" she asked again.<br />"What are you talking about?" I replied, now fully able to hear her but having no idea what she meant.<br />"A text message?"<br />"Oh," I said, "Sure."<br /><br />Let me insert here that usually I don't let strangers borrow my phone--after you've had a cell phone stolen from your hospital bed in the surgery ward, you become a bit paranoid.<br /><br />But I figured since it was a text message rather than a phone call, and who knows when one day I would forget my phone at home . . .<br /><br />"Sure, you can use it," I said, handing her my phone.<br />Five minutes later, she hands it back.<br /><br />Now, me, I'm not particularly nosy, but since it took her so long, I was a little curious by this point, imagining that she'd somehow broken into my bank account through my ancient Nokia and was siphoning funds to an unmarked account in the Cayman Islands.<br /><br />Luckily, the number she sent her message to was in Israel (and even to same cell phone service I have--a discounted charge!), but it's content was of questionable nature. The following is a word for word translation of the message this girl, obviously the next Tolstoy, sent to Mr.X:<br /><br />"What's up, baby? : q (yes, she did the smiley face upside down) Everything is fine. What how was today HAHA Surviving the army national service Coolness the best It's true Moroccans are crazy about couscous I love it My grandma understands more HAHA A proud Moroccan I love upbeat songs and maybe a little quiet So good luck (or something like that) Return a text message to my cell phone XXXXXXXX Do you come to Jerusalem and I am really looking for a serious relationship not something silly, Name"<br /><br />So, besides being completely confused by this message, I was in complete shock. A DATING MESSAGE?!? I knew I wasn't handing over my phone for a donation to UNICEF but A DATING MESSAGE?!?<br /><br />All, I can say is, this is the last time a stranger uses my cell phone to discuss Moroccans' love of couscous . . . I have better things to do with my 25 agurot a text message.Beckyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16776798265430421522noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11424544.post-1002491756205148862007-11-24T11:53:00.000+02:002007-11-24T11:56:29.579+02:00Questioning the UnquestionedIn surfing some friends' blogs recently, I came across something called "The Blog Readability Test" which measures: "what level of education is required to understand your blog." The blog upon which I saw this meter was a "College (Post Grad)" level blog, and I, wanting to confirm my unquestioned intelligence, decided to check my own blog. No, wait, that's not exactly accurate. I, not needing to check my unquestioned intelligence (it's <span style="font-style: italic;">unquestioned</span> after all), thought, "How cute. But it seems a little conceited to place that meter on my blog." Of course, my wonderful fiancee thought it would be interesting to, well, question my unquestioned intelligence, and check my blog. As it turns out, placing this meter on my blog would not have provided bragging rights, but rather a reason to continue my post-graduate studies--yes, that's right, my blog is "Junior High Level" which means, in essence, that if you have braces, acne, and an unhealthy obsession with Cover Girl foundation, you are eligible to (and capable of) reading my blog.<br /><div style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://www.criticsrant.com/bb/reading_level.aspx"><img style="border: medium none ;" src="http://www.criticsrant.com/bb/readinglevel/img/junior_high.jpg" alt="cash advance" /></a><br /></div><br />In attempting to understand exactly why pre-Algebra taking, glitter-eyeshadow-wearing pre-teens could be my audience, and quite possibly also adoring fans, I conducted a (non-scientific) content analysis of my previous posts and came up with the following most mentioned topics:<br /><br />1) Cats<br />2) Wal-Mart<br />3) Camels<br />4) Human/civil rights in Israel<br />5) Cats<br />6) Stories from my bus adventures in Jerusalem<br />7) The Disengagement from the Gaza Strip<br />8) Pickles<br />9) Saving the world<br />10) Oh yes, and cats.<br /><br />Nadav seems to think that my overuse of felines as subject matter may be playing a role in the algorithm used to determine the "level" of my blog.<br /><br />But I've decided after checking one of my other friend's blogs--someone who I truly consider a genius, a walking encyclopedia, and a clever writer--and discovering that, according this test, that one only requires a elementary school education to understand it, I'm in good company. I'm a writer of the people--apparently even awkward, Backstreet Boys-loving, Bongo-sporting middle schoolers (please excuse the dated references to my own pre-pubescent era).Beckyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16776798265430421522noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11424544.post-22960352887486600002007-10-23T12:11:00.000+02:002007-10-23T12:25:29.899+02:00No, I didn't get thrown in jail . . .I figured some of you may have worried since the last time I wrote I was describing my legal difficulties with the Jerusalem City Hall.<br /><br />It was months ago--and yet, no progress has been made. We're set to have a preliminary hearing next week, just in case you are curious. I find myself wanting to be positive but unable to actually think optimistically . . . If only Judge Judy were here.<br /><br />On other fronts, in the last 2 months I have managed to:<br />1) Finish all of my papers for last school year (just in time to start <span style="font-style: italic;">this</span> school year)<br />2) Travel to America to see the folks<br />3) Buy a wedding dress (sorry, I would post it, but my groom-to-be is very anxious to catch a glimpse of this hot pink (note: to throw him off) bejeweled creation)<br />4) Oh, yeah, get engaged (reason for #3)<br />5) Completely forget my loving fans and horrendously neglect my blog<br />(note: if you are not so loving of a fan, <span style="font-style: italic;">don't </span>comment)<br /><br />In order to ease myself back into this whole "blog thing," I would like to share a few--some more comical than others--reflections on the third anniversary of my immigration to Israel.<br /><br />Today's topic: "Going up . . ."<br /><br />People here don't call us "immigrants." They call us "the ones who go/came up." Well, there's a certain amount of truth to that phrase, especially for someone who "came up" from sunny, <span style="font-style: italic;">flat</span> Florida. The mountains of Jerusalem are far more impressive than the highest point in Florida (all of 327 feet above sea level); I know, I was there three weeks ago. But in my three years here, I've learned that even though Israel's <span style="font-style: italic;">dugree</span> (direct) ways of expression--spoken or otherwise--are more abrupt, more straightforward than "Jo Ann," the cashier in one of Pensacola's five Super Wal-Marts, euphemisms exist here as well.<br /><br />And this is exactly what <span style="font-style: italic;">oleh</span> (new Jewish immigrant) is--a euphemism. To call it a misnomer is incorrect and lacks an understanding of Israeli society itself, which is, despite much of the world's view, always trying (however successfully or not) to improve itself. The Jewish concept of <span style="font-style: italic;">tikkun olam</span> (repairing the world) is deeply ingrained in Israeli society--there are just so many ideas about what "repair" the world needs that objective progress is somewhat derailed. In any case, on the commemoration of the assassination of Yitzhak Rabin, a day which holds a special place in my heart (click <a href="http://beckysadventure.blogspot.com/2006_11_01_archive.html">here</a> for "Do I Believe in Peace?" Scroll Down), and the anniversary of my choosing to make <span style="font-style: italic;">aliyah</span> as well as the day I actually did it, I realize that we are far, far from where we want to be and the idea that we are currently serving as a "light unto the nations" is a dream that has been overladen with reality or vice versa, depending on the day and the action in question.<br /><br />As a student of the social sciences and as someone whose favorite past time is watching and analyzing people, I find it harder and harder to successfully place my world--that is, Israel--into a category. What is perhaps easier is to engage in this mental exercise and end with an oft-quoted phrase at our Shabbat dinner table, "Well, there's a lot of work to be done." This is something I would have said three years ago upon my arrival and my induction into Israeli citizenry, but I probably would have had some stars in my eyes, envisioning how it would happen while I was still alive. I still believe that "there's a lot of work to be done" and that the moral, spiritual, and social challenges that face us are gargantuan in nature. I must say, though, that every time I am disgusted by what I read in the news--another murder, another human rights abuse, another harmful act to the environment--I look and (thank G-d) successfully find an article about a law suit, a demonstration, a strike that is making our government and leaders pay attention to the problems we have.<br /><br />This society is by no means perfect. But, I think, it is awake.<br /><br />Stay tuned for more (admittedly tree-hugger-esque) soliloquies on the Art/Frustration/Englightenment/Satisfaction of Aliyah.<span style=""><b></b></span>Beckyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16776798265430421522noreply@blogger.com0